Find-Mr-Right.com is a free online guide for relationship advice helping you find, attract and keep your dream guy.  This is not an online dating website - it’s more of a ‘how to’ guide for women wanting to create that special, loving, long term successful relationship.  Whether you are searching for a boyfriend, a husband, or looking for true love through union with your soulmate, you’ll find relationship tips, techniques and genuine relationship advice to help you.

It’s possible that you’re single, have split from a less than ideal relationship or perhaps you’re still in one.  Whether you want to find a date using free online dating, want to know the truth behind love tests and sign compatibility or whether you’re looking specifically for your elusive soulmate – your answers are here!


The smart woman's guide to finding, attracting & keeping Mr Right

Here’s a fraction of what you’ll find on this website:

• Dating – a free guide to successful online dating
• Loves tests and compatibility tests – how to really get accurate results
• Find out the truth behind horoscope zodiac and astrology compatibility
• Find out how tarot cards, rune and mystics make such ‘accurate’ predictions
• Understand real romance and create your own romantic relationship
• Learn romantic tips, romantic ideas and which romantic gifts to give
• Understand your emotions and how to improve your relationship mindset
• Learn why men don’t listen and how to train him to really listen to you
• Learn what men really want from a relationship and why they rarely get it
• Learn why 99% of women unwittingly push men away from commitment
• Learn how to successfully get commitment from your guy – the simple way
• Does your boyfriend feel the same way about you? Find out the truth
• How to know if your boyfriend is cheating and what to do about it
• Understand what really causes a broken heart and how to mend one
• Learn why so many women fail because of intuitive relationship mistakes
• The guys you find attractive can be poles apart from what you want – learn why
• Find out the truth behind chemistry and why it keeps so many women single
• Learn how to ‘attract’ a guy using your body-language
• Learn how to create a deep connection through the language you use
• Understand how to create a relationship your guy will want to commit to
• Access to romantic poems love poems and love quotes for your guy
• Cute nicknames for boyfriends – how to create your own

How to get finding Mr Right consistently wrong!

Let’s get started with something pivotal to you finding your Mr Right.

• What a woman wants and what a woman finds attractive tend to be two very different things.

I’ll give you a typical example:

I could ask Joanne what she wants in a guy and she could give me a list of qualities.  So let’s say for example Joanne wants a guy that makes her laugh, is confident and assertive, considerate, trustworthy, compassionate and romantic.  It just so happens that a guy called Dave fits the description perfectly.  The two of them bump into each other by chance and within the space of ten seconds Joanne decides she doesn’t find him attractive and moves on.

However, later the same day Joanne bumps into Mark and within ten seconds she realises she finds him attractive and flirts with him hoping he’ll ask her out on a date.  The interesting thing is that Mark doesn’t actually have any of the qualities Joanne wants in a guy.  However she finds him attractive, they have ‘chemistry’ and in all honesty she doesn’t really consider his suitability as a long term partner.

As time passes and she gets to know the real Mark the initial attraction begins to wane.  However because Joanne has already invested so much time, effort and emotional energy into the relationship - she wants to make it ‘right’.  Unfortunately she feels increasingly frustrated Mark isn’t all the things she assumed he would be.  Maybe she’ll make it her mission to try and change him into what she does want…  but alas it’s doomed to fail.  In logical terms Joanne’s behaviour makes little sense, but she’ll fail and fail again hoping next time it’ll turn out better.

The ironic thing is that people around her can see she’s going for guys with qualities well outside of what she actually wants.  However, Joanne simply can’t see it that way…  and here’s why:

Fatal attraction

The problem many women have is that they are strongly driven by ‘attraction instinct’.  It has after all been responsible for the reproduction of our species for hundreds of thousands of years. Unfortunately, over recent times our social structure has changed far faster than our instincts…  thus what worked for us in ancient times is now significantly out of date.  Our requirements have also shifted along with our social development, but unfortunately our attraction instinct has not.  So generally speaking, what you want at an intellectual level through your intelligence and reasoning is being overwritten by the instinctive part of your mind making you feel attraction for guys that would have been more genetically suitable for you as a mate in a bygone age.

This attraction instinct is beyond conscious awareness hence many women seem to be blind to their ongoing poor selection of potential suitors.  I guess it’s easy to be objective when it’s a friend or family member being messed around by some worthless guy, but in reality when it happens to you it can be difficult to view the situation clearly.  This isn’t a criticism of women – it’s a fact…  and the sooner you can accept that your auto-pilot relationship strategies probably aren’t serving you, the sooner we can start making some positive changes and get you into a healthy, loving, fulfilling relationship.

No nonsense tactics

Now here’s a bit of a warning up front.  What I teach works in the real world - it’s not some academic theory.  If you use the information, techniques and mindsets I’m going to discuss with you, you will succeed in creating a wonderful relationship.  If you go about things half-heartedly because it’s different, uncomfortable or ‘not you’ then your results will probably be significantly diluted.  At the end of the day it has to be your decision and what you decide will depend on how much you want your dream relationship to happen.

The application of what you learn from me is your responsibility and nobody else’s.  You will reap what you sow in terms of results.  You may have gathered by now that I don’t sugar coat things and there’s good reason for this.  Positive results and healthy, loving, sharing relationships don’t need sugar coating – it’s only excuses, sympathy and half-hearted effort that need sweetening to make them more palatable.  I work only with the former, I call a spade a spade and I genuinely want to help you to help yourself.

Dismissing the social lies

As a woman you know how it is from a female perspective, in terms of what you want, how you feel and what a wonderful relationship means to you at the deepest level.  Now if you think a guy perceives things the same way, wants the same things as you and understands how you think and feel – you are very mistaken.

Much of our social upbringing is based upon un-truths (or lies if you call a spade a spade).  Political correctness and ‘equality’ over the past sixty years has destroyed much of what nature has created over hundreds of thousands of years.  Equality is great in context and I’m all for fairness, but unfortunately equality has become accepted as ‘sameness’ and this in itself has compromised our natural behaviour…  particularly in the case of men.

Let’s assume for a brief moment that men and women are the same with the exception of their physical sexual differences.  Surely they’d think alike and want the same things.  Now search your memories and consider how many men in your life have understood you and connected with you at the same level as your female friends.  It’s a sobering thought but in the cold light of reality we have to accept that men and women are incredibly different.  Our physical differences pale into insignificance when compared to our differing brain wiring and drives.

If you want success with men – listen to a guy

You tend to perceive the world from a purely female perspective, as do your female friends.  You’ll no doubt receive plenty of advice and agreement from other women regarding their views of men. However, if you want to understand what makes guys tick, what guys want, how guys think, what’s important to them etc…  then your female friends, no matter how similar their views or how positive their intentions…  are probably a mile off.

Only a guy can tell you about what it’s like being a guy, what makes him tick, what he wants, how he thinks, what’s important to him and how he perceives and understands relationships.  Now that guy is me.  I’m going to teach you things you need to know about men that will light up your emotions like a Christmas tree.  Some of these things you’ll like, some you’ll hate and other’s will simply astound you.

However, it’s important you understand the many varying aspects of guys if you’re going to build a dream relationship with one…  and there’s of course good reason for this.  In terms of relationships – many guys can either take it or leave it!  So if you’re intrigued to know more and want to learn how to convince a special guy to choose you, then take this guys advice.

Now let's make a start and Find Mr Right.